If you give premise to receive, it is love of hypocrisy, not real love. There is a lie.
There is a lie. Even if it seems to be full of love, if there is plot on the back, it can not be said that there is really love. What is real love. True love is Give and Give. I do not ask for any trade and I do not expect either.
For the happiness of the opponent, I will just give myself to give.
Being happy with your opponent gives me happiness. For example, when raising an important child, I do not ask for any trade. I do not think that "Give me money because I raised it." I think that I am happy enough just because my child grows up quickly. It is just a state of Give & Give. On the other hand, it is love of imitation that worries with unrequited love. "I want you to love me, because I like you," I'm looking for a return. It looks like love, but there are plots on the back. If a person with unrequited love love does not have to be fulfilled, if you think that you are happy if you become happy, yourself will be true love.
